Dec 3 2020
Steve was just sitting there on the
tailgate of his pickup, looking out at the world and thinking
he’s doing all right. The two little kids walking down the
sidewalk saw their favorite cowboy sitting there and grinned.
“Hi Steve!”
“Oh hey there, Bobby … Sylvia … how you kids doing these
days?”
“Had a good Thanksgiving. Yep. Getting ready for
Christmas. Bobby was telling me just a while ago that he wants
to train horses, like you, when he grows up.”
“I told you not to say anything, Syl, but there you go
again. Now Steve will think all I want is horse training
lessons.”
“Horse training lessons?” Steve said. “Now that would be
a good idea, actually. It’s always a smart thing to learn from
others’ mistakes before you make the same ones.”
“Mistakes?”
“See this scar on my arm?” They both nodded. “Barbed wire
fence at 27 miles an hour. Horse didn’t have a mark on him.”
“That was a mistake?”
“Sure was, Bobby. I wasn’t supposed to ride that horse. I
was about 12, and they told me to ride something gentler.”
“But you didn’t, huh?”
“No, Sylvia I didn’t, because when you’re 12, you already
know more than the grown-ups around you. It was great, being
that smart when I was only 12.”
The kids examined every inch of the scar. “I bet you
learned, huh?”
“Oh sure, I learned never to run a fractious horse along
a barbed-wiire fence. And I learned other stuff, too. My right
leg’s been broken once and I couldn’t work for almost two
months. My left foot was stomped on and two bones broken by a
draft horse I was shoeing, and this scar on the back of my neck?
Low branch on a tree and a runaway colt. And on this other arm …
see these? That’s all from a horse jerking his hoof while I was
shoeing him and I hadn’t clinched the nail yet.”
Bobby thought for a minute. “That’s a lot of
learning, Steve. Did it hurt?”
“Every one of them and a couple I don’t show to
anyone. Are you ready to learn how to be a cowboy? Need some
scars?”
“I …. well … I guess I’d better ask my folks first.”
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